Triploidy again

Our baby had triploidy 69 XXX.  Same exact cause for our loss, just this time we lost a girl.  We now know for sure we have a son and a daughter in heaven.  It hurts more than words can express.  I'm so angry.  Triploidy is supposed to occur in 1% of pregnancies and the odds of recurrent triploidy is less than 1%.  So once again we are on the wrong side of odds.  Our RE confirmed today that it would be unwise to continue with my eggs.  I knew it was coming but it still majorly sucks to hear from a doctor that I will not have any more biological children.  Genetics are only a teeny tiny part of what makes up a family but it will still be a grieving process of it's own.  I'm not sure where we go from here.  We're not permanently closing the door on possibilities but we will be taking some time to make decisions.